Dating is something many people get started on. Some people may not go much further than that. But for the most part, you have very little to know about the person sitting at the next table over on the dance floor. It’s hard to get a feel for a person right off the bat, and many women will often go on a lot of different dates to find the right one. They want to find a guy that wants a serious relationship and won’t play games.
Find someone who isn’t only about expensive gifts
Many of these women will try and find a guy that will buy her things, is charming, and above all, makes her feel feminine. There is nothing wrong with that and it’s good to try and find a guy who wants those things. They want a guy to hold their hand and take them to the movies and other such things. But what about a guy who just wants to have some fun? A guy who wants to get busy? There’s often a market for such a guy who will want to get away from the normal routines of a relationship.
Many women will look at a date with a guy over 35 who just casually talks about doing some fun things that he would normally do. It could be that he likes trying art collectibles, going to concerts or reading stories. What he really wants is a way to escape the normal routine of his job, family, and other responsibilities. By trying to find a date that allows him to escape all that, you are more likely to find a way to have fun, try out some fun things, and maybe one day realize that you have finally found a guy to have a serious relationship with, than not ever see again.
Never settle based on fear of missing out
Some women believe that they have to have everything in order to cover up their fears of possibly being without a man in the future. So, they seek after a guy who is successful and has a lot of money, a guy who is intelligent, has college degrees, and won’t be the one to stab her in the eye while she’s sleeping or something. These women often stay with these guys for a while, only to find that they have created a pattern of not wanting a commitment. It may be worth it for a while, but once it becomes a revolving door, it’s never worth it to try again.
Better to take comfort in knowing that you aren’t alone. There are millions of women who find themselves looking at their single status, and slowly but surely, they think of themselves as being married. They have ultimately decided that, though they haven’t been willing to commit to any one person, magically finding themselves in a relationship is the next best thing.
Most importantly, put yourself out there!
With so many women out there, it’s getting harder and harder to find a single guy. That’s part of the reason why the internet dating phenomenon has taken hold. It can be hard pinpointing a person, unless you know what you’re looking for. Many women would just like a guy to call them, or to join them at a bar. There are other women who simply want to meet a guy, but are unsure of what to do once the moment has passed.
If you’ve never approached a guy before, it can be intimidating. There are a lot of old rules that no longer apply. With the help of a few trusted sources, you’ll learn the proper way to get a guy interested in you. You’ll learn the places and circumstances for when you should approach a new guy, so you’ll know how to seal the deal once you’ve found one.
